8 Questions to Test a Personality and a Life Purpose

It is a cliche but it is still the obvious reality. A specific personality will have a specific life. Because a specific personality's day will be made up of specific habits which will lead to a specific day and, as a result, a specific life. As apparent as it is;

“How we spend our days is of course how we spend our lives."

Annie Dillard

First four questions will be determining the life you are living at the moment and the perfect life you want to live, and also will help you manage the second four question that will determine the person you are and the person you want to become. These question are designed to assist individuals to understand their problems and their solutions. Answer the questions as detailed as possible. Furthermore, try to focus on emotions that your answers you hope to reveal in you. Enjoy!

1) Compare the Moments that you were Happy and Unhappy. What is the Difference?

The difference provides you the true definition of the emotions you desire to experience. It could be a time in primary school you were the happiest or it could be a time you joined to a dance class. After determining the specific time, start breaking it to details(People, Activity, Life Purpose, etc.)

2) What do you Dream About?

By dream, it does not refer to a dream at night or some sort of life purpose. It involves what you think and dream about in a daily basis. Maybe you imagine a moment you attract the guy/girl you like or a time you tried skydiving. The day time thoughts and dreams indicates what you feel like you are lack of in your life or, in other words, what you are unsatisfied about. Because dreams are, in Sigmund Freud's terms, called wish fulfillments or, in today's psychology, they are explained as brain's survival reaction to content an unsatisfied human need. For example,

If you imagine you attract a guy/girl you like, you might be in lack of connection or significance(Confidence)

If you imagine you tried skydiving, you might lack of some variety in life

3) How Would you Spend your Days if you were Living the Life you Always Dreamed of?

The activities you spend your day with will evidently reveal what you enjoy doing and what you enjoy doing is not perceived as work, job or any kind of disturbing action. This reveals your dream job and your dream activity.

4) What had been Provided to you that you Would have Run After What you Wanted?

I hope that the question is clear. What is provided will reveal why you are lack of discipline. If a method that causes people to quit smoking in less than two weeks had been provided, people would have possessed so much more discipline to quit. In this case, obviously people are lack of patience to keep them in line. Lack of patience is what is holding them back.

After answering the first four, second four will be a guide to see who you are and change the way you desire.

5) What Kind of a Person Would Get the Reactions that you Desire to Get from Others?

Most believe that social skills are all about creating an antifragile personality. That is part of it of course, however, it is actually about how others perceive you emotionally. As a result, how people react to you will be based on what you make them feel like. Now the question is how do you want people to react to you. Friendships, relationships and family. After deciding the how you want people act around you. Decide what kind of characteristics you ought to possess.

6) Imagine One Day you Wake Up and Realize Everything you Have problems with Have Come to an End. What Changed?

Now you will realize what pulls you back in your journey. Addictions, limiting beliefs, bad habits, etc. You should also realize that as long as you keep those in yourself, you are defined as the like minded people you always criticize.

7) Who Do you Need to Become to Live the Life you Want?

Time to define the person who lives the life you want. The identity(self image) is the most powerful tool in human psychology. A specific identity or, as among people it is called personality, will determine the actions you take and the action you take will determine the life you live..

8) What Would you Recommend to the Person in your Conditions?

Yeap. Define the actions you must or must not take. If you write those down on paper, you are probably going to find out how much integrity you are lack of. That must be annoying.

If you answered seriously, these psychologically proven questions will lead to a higher level of awareness and figure out the obstacles you face which you might not even aware of.

Hope that was helpful! If you have questions feel free to contact me and if you want to deal with those problems read -> "How to Deal With Your Past? EFT - Part 1"

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